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mala
Hong Kong
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 Posted - 09/17/2014 : 20:36:17
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Another thread.
Dave is asking ppl to edit their posts. I'm not going to but he may do it for me. I don't know.
I don't believe I wrote anything that was wrong but I will not allow ppl to attack me nor be bullied.
In reply to my OP I was asked & told
1. 'Why did u specifically develop such bad fibroids in the first place?
2. I believe that there will be ppl who work on this (TMS) & fail. (meaning me)
Why would u say things like that? Now I don't know about others but I read that in a way I am being blamed for my condition & that I am a TMS failure. A bit harsh don't u think. Especially coming from someone you don't know, who has never seen you, run tests on you or done any investigative work? Would it not be unprofessional to diagnose someone like that ?
I also asked what authority this person had to make such claims. Is the person a doctor? A cancer specialist, a TMS doctor? If so then why refuse to make yrself known. If u believe that strain & TMS is the cause for cancer & other diseases then are u practising what u preach with yr own patients in yr own practice & if not why not? After all Dr Sarno, Dr Sopher, Dr Schubiner, Dr Schecter are all practicing what they believe openly.
Does that not raise some questions?
So I replied & I still stand by that reply. The result of that reply was that I was again told I had failed with the TMS model, that I was discouraging ppl on the forum & to go to another pain forum to vent. I was asked what my motive was to discourage ppl. I hadn't realised that I was. Should I have waited till my condition became untreatable before posting?
Then we got into the philosophy of TMS and how getting hit by a bus could be TMS too. I stand by my reply to that too.
And about domestic animals.
After that I stopped replying and started another thread to answer questions that ppl had asked & was again attacked & yes I do see it as a attack.
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-I'm nominating you for the Internet Acting Academy Awards.
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I'm sure glad I'm not your husband.
Alix is being replied to like he is some village idiot.
Darko is being attacked for saying what he believes.
Others are bleating like sheep. Andy I love that!!
A lady who was here previously who told us about her cancer was scared off.
Many ppl have messaged me privately telling me what they think of what has been going on. The reason they do it privately is because they don't want to be humiliated or become someone's target. Many said they have left the forum because of that.
That says a lot about this place of what it has become. That as adults we are being intimidated, that we are being shut up.
Ppl can post as they wish but I am not allowed to stand up for myself?
Why r we allowing this?
When ppl get into an all knowing, agrressive mode, there is no room left for proper & wholesome discussion.
Balto, u said its about egos. Its not actually. Its about standing up to the playground bullies.
I cannot force anyone to open up about how they actually feel but this is their forum too.
For those who stood up for me openly, thank you. You made me realise I wasn't losing it.
Regards
Mala
"It is more important to know what sort of person has a disease than to know
what sort of disease a person has." ~ Hippocrates (460-377 B.C.)
Mala Singh Barber on Facebook |
Edited by - mala on 09/17/2014 20:49:28 |
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tennis tom
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Posted - 09/17/2014 : 21:33:17
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Originally posted by mala
...that we are being shut up.
Mala, I don't think there's anyone on the planet who could shut you up.
Looks like you're proving Freud right.
You've been posting about your fibroids at this site for so long now it's like they were a permanent fixture. It'll be interesting to see what you'll be coming up with next, I'm rootin' for ya', go girl!
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alix
USA
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Posted - 09/17/2014 : 22:36:50
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Mala,
I think your reaction was fine and completely understandable. The people making such insensitive statements conveniently overlook genetic factors.
Even if that group of people believe it is due to a mindbody syndrome no matter what, they should just avoid upsetting people recovering from an invasive procedure with their patronizing posts.
It is sadly a replay of what happened with susan828 a few months ago. |
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tennis tom
USA
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Posted - 09/17/2014 : 23:04:54
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| I'm giving Mala a pass since she's undoubtedly high as a kite on post-op meds, percodan or Hydro-codone maybe? You'd think she'd be tickled to bits having finally fixed her pain problem and take a vacation to Crete or Bali and do head-stands and child's pose all day long. But, now that she's fixed one problem she's still not happy, but found a new obsession, poor little rich girl being herrassed over the internet by unfeeling TMS sexist strangers. Just maybe Mala should quit poseing/posting as the poor little injured party and enjoy her new freedom--but NO she's already found a new TMS distraction, persecution on TMS internet forums. I'm having trouble feeling too bad for her since she gives back as well as she imagines she been wronged--then some. Well it will be interesting to see what the next TMS symptom will be after she takes a long pranayama breath and exhales deeply. Maybe she should put her head between her legs and breathe deeply before she hyperventalates. Her last post was absolutely hysterical. Mala waould make a great vacation fill-in for Rachel Maddow. |
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alix
USA
434 Posts |
Posted - 09/17/2014 : 23:20:17
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| That was unbearably sexist Tom. |
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tennis tom
USA
4746 Posts |
Posted - 09/17/2014 : 23:25:58
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| Remember alix I'm not talking to you--but THANK YOU! |
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tennis tom
USA
4746 Posts |
Posted - 09/17/2014 : 23:35:50
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| Hey, if by any means my hip was miraculously healed and I could run again, I would be out running marathons or at least halfs and not trolling at TMS web sites looking for fights. Mala's gonna' give herself a stress fracture of her kielbasa if she keeps this up. |
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alix
USA
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Posted - 09/17/2014 : 23:39:15
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But I am talking to you. I do not have a problem at all with that.
Your post is truly unbearably mean and sexist.
I am copying it for reference just in case you start to tone it down.
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I'm giving Mala a pass since she's undoubtedly high as a kite on post-op meds, percodan or Hydro-codone maybe? You'd think she'd be tickled to bits having finally fixed her pain problem and take a vacation to Crete or Bali and do head-stands and child's pose all day long. But, now that she's fixed one problem she's still not happy, but found a new obsession, poor little rich girl being herrassed over the internet by unfeeling TMS sexist strangers. Just maybe Mala should quit poseing/posting as the poor little injured party and enjoy her new freedom--but NO she's already found a new TMS distraction, persecution on TMS internet forums. I'm having trouble feeling too bad for her since she gives back as well as she imagines she been wronged--then some. Well it will be interesting to see what the next TMS symptom will be after she takes a long pranayama breath and exhales deeply. Maybe she should put her head between her legs and breathe deeply before she hyperventalates. Her last post was absolutely hysterical. Mala waould make a great vacation fill-in for Rachel Maddow.
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tennis tom
USA
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Posted - 09/17/2014 : 23:46:24
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Originally posted by alix
I am copying it for reference just in case you start to tone it down.
WOW! Let me know how much you get for it on ebay, I want at least half. |
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Darko
Australia
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Posted - 09/17/2014 : 23:53:07
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Wow TT, you poor man, I really feel sorry for you.
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Edited by - Darko on 09/17/2014 23:56:28 |
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tennis tom
USA
4746 Posts |
Posted - 09/18/2014 : 00:26:30
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Originally posted by Darko
Wow TT, you poor man, I really feel sorry for you.
Thank you please send cash, put your money where your mouth is. |
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mala
Hong Kong
774 Posts |
Posted - 09/18/2014 : 18:31:56
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I'm giving Mala a pass since she's undoubtedly high as a kite on post-op meds, percodan or Hydro-codone maybe? You'd think she'd be tickled to bits having finally fixed her pain problem and take a vacation to Crete or Bali and do head-stands and child's pose all day long. But, now that she's fixed one problem she's still not happy, but found a new obsession, poor little rich girl being herrassed over the internet by unfeeling TMS sexist strangers. Just maybe Mala should quit poseing/posting as the poor little injured party and enjoy her new freedom--but NO she's already found a new TMS distraction, persecution on TMS internet forums. I'm having trouble feeling too bad for her since she gives back as well as she imagines she been wronged--then some. Well it will be interesting to see what the next TMS symptom will be after she takes a long pranayama breath and exhales deeply. Maybe she should put her head between her legs and breathe deeply before she hyperventalates. Her last post was absolutely hysterical. Mala waould make a great vacation fill-in for Rachel Maddow.
TT u r so cute, thx for sharing & bringing a chuckle or two in my life. You are really awkward around ppl on a forum but in such an endearing way & so misunderstood.
Such a shame really that my dr would only give me panadol but I did a search & those 2 drugs u mentioned sound wonderful. (OK so how much TT & when can u deliver  ) Being rich does have it perks so name yr price. I promise to include a large tip!
I'm not really able to those head stands yet but ohhhhh the child poses felt good . I don't know why I kept thinking about u though.
Great idea about a vacation. I had thought of Bali but I'm so over it (aren't u?) & I was in Crete many years ago. I'm sure its changed a lot but it is a rather long flight so maybe some other time but thx for the suggestions.
I've actually decided Phuket( Foo Kit) would be a good idea. Only 2 and a half hours away. I checked to see if our 2 pool villa at the Banyan Tree was available & yes it is. I'm not so strong yet so the 24 hour butler service takes care of everything which means I can just relax & watch the sun set over the Andaman Sea. (Pls check google map for reference)
Now all I have to do is get my tickets sorted out. I'm thinking Gulf Air . I always manage an upgrade from Business to First class. Flying can be so difficult when one is not 100% but u would know that what with yr hip and all.
Is that what you do dear Tom when you having problems? Head between your legs. Can you reach ? And how does it feel afterwards? Much relief I'm sure. Well we all have our ways. Some more successful than others.
Tom I can't thank u enuff for all the wonderful advice u have given me. I would really like to send u a postcard from Phuket just to let u know how much fun I'll be having so pls send me yr address.
Oh BTW how is the limp? Any better? The Chinese here swear by deer penis & ginseng. A sure cure. Its legal too.
Sawadee Kha Khun Tom
Oh -its hug a troll day so here's one from me . BIG HUGS
Mala
"It is more important to know what sort of person has a disease than to know
what sort of disease a person has." ~ Hippocrates (460-377 B.C.)
Mala Singh Barber on Facebook |
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Darko
Australia
387 Posts |
Posted - 09/18/2014 : 19:30:09
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| I must admit....I'm starting to enjoy TT posts, but I have a dry, strange sense of humor. You troll good....personally I'd like to see you take it up a notch or two..... |
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mala
Hong Kong
774 Posts |
Posted - 09/18/2014 : 19:36:45
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Just started Darko. Not used to it. Hopefully will get better with practice
Mala |
Edited by - mala on 09/18/2014 19:40:00 |
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Darko
Australia
387 Posts |
Posted - 09/18/2014 : 19:44:30
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TT's trolling is of high standard, but I think he can do better......he's able to piss many people off and that's a good/bad skill, depending on how you look at it. I'm starting to find it most entertaining....sadly there aren't many people left on the forum to attack.
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Aussie
Australia
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Posted - 09/18/2014 : 20:05:30
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Originally posted by tennis tom
I'm giving Mala a pass since she's undoubtedly high as a kite on post-op meds, percodan or Hydro-codone maybe? You'd think she'd be tickled to bits having finally fixed her pain problem and take a vacation to Crete or Bali and do head-stands and child's pose all day long. But, now that she's fixed one problem she's still not happy, but found a new obsession, poor little rich girl being herrassed over the internet by unfeeling TMS sexist strangers. Just maybe Mala should quit poseing/posting as the poor little injured party and enjoy her new freedom--but NO she's already found a new TMS distraction, persecution on TMS internet forums. I'm having trouble feeling too bad for her since she gives back as well as she imagines she been wronged--then some. Well it will be interesting to see what the next TMS symptom will be after she takes a long pranayama breath and exhales deeply. Maybe she should put her head between her legs and breathe deeply before she hyperventalates. Her last post was absolutely hysterical. Mala waould make a great vacation fill-in for Rachel Maddow.
Wow, what a laugh this is. It's hard not to actually feel embarrassed for you when you write aggressive attacks like this, usually targeted at women. The truth is you've posted here more than any other person on the planet, however I'm sure like me many others disregard your posts as you have not even been able to heal yourself. In fact you refuse to even believe the diagnosis of a TMS physician which is baffling. TT let it go. The good folk over at the wiki don't need another TT VS Alexis now do they buddy? I'm sure this is where you'll come back and try and take the piss out of Australia or something equally as pathetic. Go ahead, it's actually pretty freakin nice down here 'mate'. TT stop targeting women and grow up. |
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Darko
Australia
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Posted - 09/18/2014 : 20:16:13
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however I'm sure like me many others disregard your posts
spot on mate! |
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tennis tom
USA
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Posted - 09/19/2014 : 01:01:24
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You'll have finally turned the TMS corner, it's the happiest I've ever heard the three of you here. You can all fire your therapists now and I'll only charge you half of what you were paying them. Cash only please. BTW in regards to the wiki, I was asked by Forest on several occasions to go over there and finally conceded to it. He thinks I'm funny.
tt,
lsmft
P.S. Did two tennis clinics today for a total of four hours--even on my arthritic hip. The tennis team I was on just won a little club fun tournament this past weekend, I did more then my fair share to help--even on my arthritic hip. The prize was a nice bottle of red, it's already been drunk. Ran for half an hour in the pool and a couple of hours shopping in a big box store, maybe walking another mile in there. Topped it off with a hot-tub and the night is still young. My gf is practicing pranayama breathing as I suggested to Mala, but on me. Tommorrow might to a track day not sure which car to take, the Lotus, the Viper or the Boxster Spyder--maybe I'll just do the kart track. BTW for you ozzzies, I'm working on building an electric Moke. You can see one like it on Youtube, it's the yellow electric one. It will shred tires and probably do wheelies, it will be the fastest golf cart on the planet. Life is good--the women really hate me.
"All my friends in Los Angeles are the sensitive type. They all have like all the diseases like Chronic Fatigue, Epstien Barr, Fibromyalgia. Like all the diseases where the only symptoms seem to be you had a really crappy childhood and at the prospect of full time work ya feel kinda achy and tired."
Posted by Skizzik @ TMSHelp from comedian Maria Bamford
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alix
USA
434 Posts |
Posted - 09/19/2014 : 07:02:15
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| Congratulations on your fabulous wealth TT. Why do you think you are involved in every single fight on this forum? |
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tennis tom
USA
4746 Posts |
Posted - 09/19/2014 : 09:45:23
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Originally posted by alix
Congratulations on your fabulous wealth TT. Why do you think you are involved in every single fight on this forum?
The haters have to hate someone? Scapegoatism? The LAWS OF ATTRACTION? Opposites attract.
My wealth is not fabulous, but good enough for me and my babe. I owe it to good wealth genes, just showing up, hard smart work, the US Stock Market, kali RE, being lucky enough to live in the greatest country on earth, THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA, where any schmuck can make a mint if they just try--being to smart is a hindrance though, then you get too existential about the whole thing and get mired down in the TMS personality wasting valuable energy on fruitless tautalogical arguments, coveting your neighbors wealth and psychobabbling, which should be the llth commandment--"THOU SHALT NOT PSYCHOBABBLE"--it will make you crazy!
P.S. BTW, the other day I drove half way across two states, 650 miles in one sitting non, stop except for gas, thanks to thinking TMS psychologically, no urinary urgency and I didn't have to take one Flowmax. That was nothing though, my one day record is 900 miles, frisco to the Mexican border at Green Valley, AZ.
Thanks for giving me the opportunity to expound, not braggn', just sayin'.
"If I am not for me who will be? If I am not for other, what am I? And if not now, when?
Rabbi Hillel
(Loosely translated the from Aramaic, my Sanskrit is not much better--mental note to self: take more Kundalini classes at the JCC--find a hot bikram coach.)
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"All my friends in Los Angeles are the sensitive type. They all have like all the diseases like Chronic Fatigue, Epstien Barr, Fibromyalgia. Like all the diseases where the only symptoms seem to be you had a really crappy childhood and at the prospect of full time work ya feel kinda achy and tired."
Posted by Skizzik @ TMSHelp from comedian Maria Bamford
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tennis tom
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Posted - 09/19/2014 : 10:00:44
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however I'm sure like me many others disregard your posts
spot on mate!
Oh sure, that's why the only time you come here is to troll me--do you have a google alert for every time I post?
Well thanks guys, I'm awake now and onto writing my book. It's pretty much been written here, all I have to do is dig it out of the archives. I'll be sure to announce it here first, "There is no such thing as bad publicity--except for your own obituary". And I want you all to write Amazon reviews for me--"I knew him before he was on Oprah, Leno and Howard Stern, we used to talk all the time, I'll show you copies from our PM's at the TMS message board". |
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