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marsha
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 Posted - 11/03/2015 : 15:05:36
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what would you do if your situation were reversed?
You were the one with cancer.
Your wife is fine.
She constantly, relentlessly is trying to convince you to do things in the manner she felt would get the most positive results.
Do you believe this would hamper any kind of recovery you had.
What you would need is support, love and the confidence that you would recover in your own way this will help you.
YOU could be right or wrong. When you make choices for other people you then have to accept the consequences of you actions.
Take care, Marsha |
Edited by - marsha on 11/03/2015 15:09:04 |
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andy64tms
USA
589 Posts |
Posted - 11/03/2015 : 16:25:28
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Marsha is being too polite, let’s use testicle cancer for our example. Ouch!
Andy
Past TMS Experience in 2000, with success.
Charlie Horse on neck for 20 years, is almost gone.
Books:
Healing Back Pain
Unlearn your Pain
The Great Pain Deception |
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filipe
Portugal
280 Posts |
Posted - 11/03/2015 : 17:36:27
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Well you are taking this too personal. Now you are wishing me to have testicle cancer :)Sorry guys, but cancer doesn't scared me anymore.
I took this afternoon to look at some older threads, and realise, there were a lot of fight over this subject... i'm pretty sure this is the reason why others don't give their opinion..
But if you want an answer, the way I see it, how I can I go with the treatment that my wife wanted for me, if her decision is based on fear, and not based on facts. Anyway, it should be our decision, not one's decision...
Anyway, I wish you all good luck, I really do :)
I rest my case.
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marsha
252 Posts |
Posted - 11/03/2015 : 17:46:18
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Actually I wasn't thing about any particular kind of cancer.
When you cannot reach a compromise , we are all in charge of our own bodies.
AND you didn't answer my question.
What would you do if it was you. Are you afraid to answer? |
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marsha
252 Posts |
Posted - 11/03/2015 : 17:56:14
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What facts? If you depend on. Suzanne Summers as an expert you are in big trouble.
I have faith in Sarno's theories ,but I am a breast cancer survivor . Some that I know have not survived.
Cynthia Goldberg
Sheila Gesher
Ingrid Bergman
Diane Anastasia
Kathy Liota.
Shall I continue? |
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andy64tms
USA
589 Posts |
Posted - 11/03/2015 : 18:25:38
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I for one am not taking this personally. I am not the one with a personal vendetta against someone else’s belief. I am not the one personally chasing websites looking for that extra bit of information to support my belief. I am not the one personally posting hundreds of links to convince others. I am also not the one having marital difficulties. Do you fear perhaps that others have differing opinions?
On a personal note I do not fear Cancer since I have seen 1st hand people recover, with conventional medicine, and scant few with a belief system. What does it matter to you what I believe, it’s really got nothing to do with you?
And you nicely evaded our questions regarding Testicle Cancer, why? And please don’t answer with another link to a cancer site!
Andy
Past TMS Experience in 2000, with success.
Charlie Horse on neck for 20 years, is almost gone.
Books:
Healing Back Pain
Unlearn your Pain
The Great Pain Deception |
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What would you do? Philipe
